Gentleman’s Dilemma: What Mexican Women Expect from Men

Boy meets girl.

Boy dates girl.

Boy marries girl.

Do you agree that it’s this simple?

But who are we kidding? Dating isn’t mere fantasy.

There are tons of steps you have to follow before you can reach the summit, especially when it comes to wooing a woman.

So if you plan on getting yourself a date with a Latina, you better start to put your back into it.

Winning over her trust (much less anyone’s trust) is a 50/50 chance that you may or may not have a shot at again. Even if you were to spout the most convincing of words, there’s no avoiding the possibility of being turned down.

No person in their right mind would consider trusting their entire life to a stranger. What more if it’s a romantic relationship?

But no worries, we have exactly what the love doctor has offered.

To show a Latina lady that you are sincerely interested in her, you must put in a lot of thought and effort. They’re not going to easily buy whatever you’re putting out, regardless if you have dashing looks and a loaded wallet.

They need to know you’re serious and that you’re in it for real. For sure, they will assess whether you are being genuine with your intentions or if you have some hidden agenda.

To help you out in getting a Latina woman to open up to you, here are a few green flags that they look for in a man.

Candidness

This is a universal trait that everyone looks into in a potential partner.

You have to put your most honest self out there, even at the cost of rejection. This is not only for your good but for hers as well.

It’s no good to start a relationship where either of you is a tick away from setting each other off. Being polite can only go so far until, eventually, you will show who you really are as a person.

This is why it’s best to set proper expectations at the start of a relationship. You’ll only put yourself and her through unnecessary heartbreak, and neither of you would want that to happen.

Besides, you would fare much better in life if you were to be honest with yourself. This also helps you narrow down your search for a partner and attract the Latina you are looking for.

Drive to Succeed

A man with ambition would go much further in life than a man who relies on his trust fund. No one would ever dream of dating a lazy bum. If they do, they are either bought off by their other redeeming qualities or love has made them blind.

You don’t necessarily need to always be at a hundred to earn her trust and respect. You just have to have motivation in life to secure yourself a better future. Latinas like that in a man.

Acting indifferent or overconfident would only make you look like an egotistical maniac.

The results will speak for themselves. You don’t have to prove to her that you have this specific trait she is looking for. If you treat it as though it’s a normal side of you, impressing her will come naturally.

Consistency

First impressions are indeed important when wooing a woman. But if there is nothing more to it, it’s as a hollow bag of chips that’s 30% content and 70% air.

Making promises you can’t keep will only make you lose your credibility. Not only will you lose face, but you will lose her interest in you as well.

Latinas want to be in a stable relationship, so they need a man who commits. There’s nothing more Latinas hate than a man full of empty promises. You bet they WILL shoot you down if you’re all words and no action.

Because without it, how else will a relationship stay afloat?

A Good Sport

Mexicanas have this dating habit of saying no at some point in the date. Why would they do this, you ask? To see how their date would react to being rejected.

She wants to know how well you deal with rejection. If you act like a kid whose toy was taken away from him, she will drop you harder than a beat in a nightclub.

If you want to pass her trial, here’s how you do it:

Reign in your reaction. It’s normal to be taken aback at first, but once you manage to get over the initial shock, you need to be able to pick yourself up and handle it like a champ.

Then, you apologize and compromise. Easy as that.

Facing rejection in the dating game is absolutely normal. We’ve all been there at some point in our life, after all. So if you do find yourself being turned down by a Mexican lady, take the loss. You’ll be able to find the right person eventually.

Neatness

A messy room says a lot about who you are as a person. These four walls reflect your state of mind, your personality, and your placement in life.

If the room is messy, it’s either the owner is:

• Untidy
• Busy
• Or going through a rough patch in life

Latinas put an emphasis on the last bit. Before getting into a relationship, they need to know if you are in the right state of mind and are capable of working things out with each other.

If not, it would be better for you both to continue her search for a partner elsewhere.

On the other hand, if you are a busy man in general, they would understand. When people are in an array to meet deadlines, they sometimes forgo simple household tasks.

But if you’re simply too lazy to pick up after yourself, your girlfriend won’t think twice about leaving you. Mexican women absolutely LOATHE men who are incapable of looking after themselves.

Giving the Right Impression and Setting the Proper Expectations

If you were to possess at least 2 of these characteristics, you will have a much better shot at dating a Latina woman.

Some Latinas might be easily bewitched with designer clothes and a cool car, but they eventually grow out of our fixation on material things. Because when looking for a lifetime partner, they need to be able to see more than that.

You might have your work cut out for you in the process, but so long as you are willing to meet each other halfway, then it shouldn’t pose much of a problem.